Picture This!

“Hold an image of the life you want, and that image will become fact.”

- Norman Vincent Peale

TulipsIt’s true we think in pictures.  Our minds create an image when we think about something specifc.  Try this… Think of a baby.  Think of a bridge.  Think of what you ate for lunch.  What did you see?  Most likely, all of these “thoughts” came to you as “images”.  You could actually picture a specific baby, a certain bridge and a nice healthy salad (or perhaps a tuna melt and some chips!).  And, not only did you get a picture in your mind, you most likely also experienced other “sensory” emotions with it.  You smelled the freshness of the baby, heard the water crash against the bridge and tasted the delicious salad and chips!

Why do we think in pictures? First – because our minds are programmed this way.  Our brain works with all of our senses, puts them together and creates a complete thought.  It rounds out the sensory experience for us.  We can actually “feel” these images in our bodies; they resonate in our being.  Often, they resonate so strongly and feel so real that we are compelled to take some sort of action.  If the “picture” is positive, loving and empowering, we do what we can to keep it, enjoy it, and get more of it.  If the “picture” is negative, ugly and draining, we do what we can to get rid of it and change the situation.

So, taking this one step further…if our mind creates images, and the images direct our thoughts and actions – what would happen if we DECIDE to create specific, positive, beautiful, empowering images in our minds?  What if we could “picture” and create the relationships we desire?  What if we could “picture” and create the job and salary we desire.  What if we could “picture” and create perfect health, a beautiful home, and an effortless, ideal life for ourselves -  in every area we desire?

Wouldn’t life be grand?

Well, I have some great news!  Life IS Grand!  You CAN do this.  You CAN have all of this.  You can literally have anything you want and desire and believe in.  The very first step is to “picture” it.  Get the image in your mind.  Brand it there.  Visualize it.  Hold it above all else no matter what you currently have or in what situation you now find yourself.  And in addition to just keeping it in your mind, you can cut out pictures and put them up around the house where you will see them everyday – on the refrigerator, on the bathroom mirror, at the edge of your computer monitor.  Look at them as often as you can, and FEEL them.  Allow all of your senses to experience them. Here’s what happens…

This image will become your thoughts.

Your thoughts will lead you to take action.  Your actions will create your results.  This means that you will have what you picture.  This new, exciting vibrant image will become your reality!  In fact, it will become your LIFE!

Hold an image in your mind’s eye, and you will surely live into it! Now, that’s Powerful!

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Is Common Sense Really So Common?

PenguinsIn the course of a day, I run across so many things that don’t make sense to me.

Yesterday, I got some coffee from a restaurant in a food court.  When I proceeded to the area to get some cream and sugar, I found that it was also the order pick-up window.  I was interrupted in fixing my coffee 3 times in the course of one minute and someone nearly spilled my coffee as they reached for their sandwich.

Then, this morning I was browsing a very interesting website and I tried to find a phone number to call the company. It wasn’t on their Contact Us page, and after 2 minutes of searching their website, I gave up. They missed out on a new customer, because I couldn’t find the phone number and I don’t have the pleasure of using their services.

In both instances, I thought to myself that it simply didn’t make sense.  Who are the people that organize these things? Have they ever tried it from the users point of view?

And then I started thinking about this more deeply…


Is it Possible to Be Truly Objective?


Is it truly possible for someone to look at their business, or their everyday life, from an objective, outside perspective?

When we work on something so closely and for so many hours, we become entrenched in the day-to-day functions; what we must do to stay afloat, how we will meet the demands and how to make it happen as easily as possible.  Sometimes, what is easy for the manager of a task is not easy for the customer or family member involved.

Take the example of the coffee station and pick up window.  What makes sense is to separate the two for the ease of the customer.  Instead, the manager is thinking that they would have another area to keep clean, there might be pilferage and the employees would have to go to the outside of the counter to fill the sugars and creamers, therefore wasting valuable time.  Or maybe the managers didn’t think about this at all.

Why didn’t they think about it? Because “this is the way it has always been done” and “if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it”. This is the mentality of many overworked managers. They are often so busy and understaffed that they work solely on putting out fires instead of creating the flame of a thriving operation.  The same can be said of many who run households and raise children.


What’s More Important?
Common Sense or Holding it All Together


Often, what makes sense is overlooked, because the thing that makes the most sense in the moment is simply holding it all together.  This way of thinking works fine for the short term, but long term it will cause a breakdown of one kind or another.  Either the kind that puts you and everything else on hold for a while or one that makes it impossible to continue at all.

Have you heard the expression “You can’t see the forest for the trees?”  This means that when you’re too close to something, it’s virtually impossible to see the whole picture.  This is a natural human phenomenon, because we are taught to get up close and personal and to focus on the details and the nitty-gritty. We’re taught to be in the trenches and to stick with what’s working.  But when we’re too close, it’s hard to see what’s right in front of us.

So what can you do when you find yourself on overload or if you want to take a good look at what’s really happening in your household or your business?  How can you get a truly objective assessment?

First, you can try it from the customers’ perspective.  Use your own website like a customer would. Read your ‘chores board’ like your kids would, and use your services just like your clients do.

Another common sense approach is to hire a coach or consultant. These professionals are trained to look at the things you simply can’t see. They are trained to ask the questions that you haven’t thought to ask.  And they aren’t as close to it as you are, so their feelings won’t get in the way.

Finally, you could ask a trusted friend or associate for their opinion of whatever you’re doing.  It must be someone who has your best interest at heart and who is capable of communicating it to you lovingly and with compassion.

Keep this in mind; what’s worked in the past may be ‘good enough’ but it’s not always the best way to do something and you might be losing credibility with your customers, family and friends.

What simple, common sense strategies are you missing out on?
Have you taken a moment to notice?
It’s simply common sense to try.
Now, that’s Powerful!

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Happy New Year (or Not)

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2012The New Year is upon us and we have all heard many wishes of Happy New Year! We’ve wished it many times for others and we are all hoping and even praying it will turn out to be this way, right? Well, what happens to these wishes and thoughts of happiness as the month rolls on by and the good feelings of the holidays are a distant and waning memory? Is having a Happy Year something we even think about? For many people, happiness is not top of mind. Instead, we focus on the day to day drudgery, a busy schedule and often just making it through to tomorrow. Happiness is not only not a major focus for us it is often not even on our radar. So if it’s not on our radar how can it happen? The short answer is: it can’t.

To Be Happy, You Must Desire Happiness
and Cultivate It From Within

The hard truth is that no one else can make you happy and you can’t make anyone else happy either. Sure, we all have some affect on the moods of others, but the emotion anyone feels lies solely within their own power. The people you see walking around in a perpetual state of happiness have made a conscious decision to be that way; and those who are walking around in a state of misery simply did not make the same conscious choice. In fact, many of these miserable people didn’t make any conscious choice at all and are simply going around ‘unconsciously unhappy’. They may not even be aware that they have a choice in front of them and instead have allowed themselves to slide into a state of unwanted, yet undeniably unsexy and unhappy misery.

And then there are those who live right in the middle: Not necessarily un-happy and not necessarily truly happy either. I am guessing that there are more people in this category than any other and I see evidence of this in the type of responses I hear when I ask, “How are you?” Often, they say “Hanging in there”, “OK”, “Fine”, “Alright” or “So-So”. Funny how so few words can say so much.

Get on the Happiness Highway

I challenge you to get out of the middle of the road and opt for the fast lane on the Happiness Highway. Yes, there is a fast lane! There is one thing for you to do…

1) Decide to be happy

Look for the good in every situation, person and thing around you. You can always see the good, the right and the happy – if you’re looking for it. Use the word, happy, whenever you have a chance no matter what is happening around you. Insert it into your conversation, “I am happy to see you (even if it’s only on the holidays)”, “I am happy to have my family here (even though they can be a handful)”, “I am happy to wake up today (even though I could use a few more hours sleep)”, I am happy I have a job (even if I don’t love my boss)”. This will bring the awareness of happiness to you in each and every moment and soon you will begin to truly feel the feelings of happiness too! The really cool and beautiful thing is that when you feel the happy, others feel it too!

Happiness is a choice and it’s contagious. Pass it on!

NOW THAT’S POWERFUL!!!

So, in case I haven’t told you lately… I’m Happy that You’re Happy!

With love and blessings for an awesome new year!

Sue

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Releasing Judgment – Is it Possible?

People - Thinker at SunsetWe are bred to make judgments. Early on as kids we are taught the difference between good and bad, right and wrong. This translated to who we should be friends with, what school, sport and instrument is best for us, how to talk to authority figures, what to eat and even the type of person we want the world to see us as. And I don’t know if it felt this way to you, but I always felt that my parents wanted me to ‘just know this’ – almost as if I didn’t have time to learn it through experience, but that I should simply know what was right.  What I realize now is that they were teaching me their version of ‘right’ and ‘good’, because they wanted to save me the trouble and angst of perhaps struggling through. I get this and I am thankful to them. At the same time, I realize that I became very judgmental and lived this way for much of my life.

How Can We Let Go of Something that is So Deeply a Part of Us?

The quick decisions I made about people were often based upon what my parents thought or what the world at large held in high regard. I was very much a team player and a ‘go with the flow/don’t rock the boat, baby” kind of girl, and this served me well for much of my life. These past several years though, I have recognized the detriment that these beliefs and judgments have brought to me. They affected my health, my relationships, my career, my finances and most importantly how I viewed myself. The work I have done over the past 9 years to release judging others as well as to release their judgments of me has allowed me to accept others and myself for who we each are – warts and all – and it has especially helped me to be more of myself.

Yes, as You Release Judgment of Others,

You also Release Judgment of Yourself

Our society greatly values those people who can look at a person or situation and immediately ‘see the potential, the reality and the truth’ of what is in front of them. Those who can make snap decisions and take action on them are highly revered – especially in the business and financial world. I admire these people – not because they are so smart. I don’t think it is their brains that they are tapped in to. I believe they are tapped in to and living from their intuitive center – their gut. What releasing judgment means to me is to get out of my head and to live more fully in the flow of life force energy. It means that I allow myself to be drawn into the feeling place of good and bad, rather than the ‘brainiac’ space of it.

In Releasing Judgment I have found My Center.
In Releasing Judgment I have found My Self.

You can do it too. Opt to see people as whole and complete. Opt to see them as Children of God. Opt to see them without judgment. As you allow yourself to release any judgment you have held for others, you will also release the judgment they have had about you…and perhaps more importantly, you will simultaneously release the judgment you have unconsciously had about yourself.

Now, notice how you feel. The weight will be lift from your shoulders and your heart, your gut will ease up, and the muscles of your body will physically relax. And you will feel an energetic pull towards EASE. Ahhh… For me, this is the best reward of all.

Happy Release. Happy You.

Wishing You Ease and Grace!

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Only 25 Days Left in the Year ~ Who Cares?

hearts 3There are many posts on Facebook and Twitter and in the newsletters of many motivational coaches lately harkening the end of the year saying things like “Oh-Oh, only this many days left to achieve your goals” “Are you where you want to be?”, “You’re running out of time”. This type of language is pretty much threatening us that if we don’t do it now or before the end of the year that we may never actually get it done. Is this true?

Does it Really Matter That It’s the End of the Year?

Frankly, I am not a big fan of ‘year-end, hurry up and get it done’ activity. I am very happy to wind down and enjoy the holiday season. I will admit that this is relatively new for me as of a few years ago. This doesn’t mean that I don’t believe in setting specific yearly goals and taking action to achieve them. It simply means that I now recognize that our lives and the years we live are a continuum that doesn’t end at midnight on New Years Eve. We are ever-expanding spiritual beings having a human experience that will continue as long as we are breathing. Putting on extra pressure at year end, especially during what is a happy and blessed holiday season is a bit much for me. I suggest you follow my lead and dismiss the hype and hullabaloo and…

Opt For a Happy, Jolly, Merry and Blessed Year End

You can do it! Let go of the pressure to perform and give yourself over to the merriment and joy that is waiting for you in the presence of your family and friends. Allow yourself to focus on the gift of holiday preparation and partying. Try a new recipe or two, sit on Santa’s lap, put up your favorite, beautiful (or even corny) decorations and be sure to reach out to those who mean the most to you.

January 1st Will Roll Around and Your World Will Still Be Well

As you allow yourself to relax into year end and the holidays or perhaps jump right in to the hustle and bustle, you will remind yourself that all IS well and that this year, just as the years before and the years to follow, is happening and passing in perfect timing and divine order. There is no other way!

Happy Holiday Season

Wishing you an Awesome Year End!

Sue

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Resistance Magnifies

800px-Waves_in_pacifica_1Have you ever noticed that whatever you resist persists? Even though your intention is to resist it so it goes away and does not have power over you, as long as you continue to give energy to a thing or a thought, it simply continues to grow.  It doesn’t matter if your thought is for it to go away or to come closer to you, if you are thinking it, you are keeping it in your vibration. It’s just like the saying…

Don’t think of a Pink Elephant

When someone tells you this, the image of a pink elephant is automatically in your mind. The same thing goes for you telling yourself “Don’t think about that negative thing I don’t want”. No matter what your thought is around that thing, the energy you give to it by virtue of your thoughts places it into your existence. There is no other possible outcome.

So How Do You Remove Something From Your Awareness and Space?

Focus on something else. Usually focusing on a thing that is exactly the opposite is the easiest and most powerful course of action.  For example, if you want your headache to go away you can focus on peace of mind, a beautiful flower, a sunset or your child at play. Your new focus will remove you from the energy you wish to avoid and will allow you to step into a more desirable energy and outcome.

“Allowing” is Always the Answer

As you allow yourself to think good thoughts and focus on best possible outcomes and to move away from the negative and undesirable aspects of what is around you, you will come to find that there is a world of goodness and light that is ever available to you. You must simply allow it in.

Wishing You Peaceful Thoughts and Release,

Sue

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The Gift of a Gratitude Share (and how to hold one)

MP900309568“If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, that would suffice.”

~ Meister Eckhart

The longtime holiday of Thanksgiving is a perfect reminder of one of the most sacred spiritual practices we can bring into our lives; the practice of gratitude. Practicing gratitude serves us on so many levels including better health, greater success, improved relationships and an increased sense of happiness and well-being. A daily practice of gratitude brings ease, peace and joy into your life faster than any other single thing you can do.

Holding a Thanksgiving Gratitude Share at Your Gathering

Kids and adults alike love a good gratitude share. Even if they are wary or reticent when you start, you will see a smile on their faces and feel the love in their hearts as the share takes place. A group gratitude share can take place anytime throughout your holiday celebration. You may choose to do it before or during your meal, before or after a prayer, over cocktails and appetizers or while taking a walk. The place or time doesn’t matter; it is the intention that counts. (Note: it is not recommended during the football game. ~ lol)

Steps for a Gratitude Share:

1. GATHER everyone and tell them you’ll be doing a gratitude share. Let them know why you’re doing it… “We have so much to be grateful for and since it is Thanksgiving, I thought it would be fun and wonderful for all us of to tell everyone the things they are most grateful for.”

2. ASK for someone to start.  You can choose to go around the table or circle or you can do a free style and invite them to chime in as they are so inspired.

3. SETTING A THEME is an option. You can ask them to share something they are grateful for about something specific: someone in the room, something at work or school, something they learned, someone they met, a special experience they had, a goal they achieved or wish that came true. A specific theme may help stimulate the share getting started and then you can open it up to any subject as they become more comfortable. TIP: You can even create pieces of paper with themes and let them pick their theme out of a basket to share.

4. HOW LONG does it last? Your gratitude share can be a few short minutes or it can go on as long as you like. You’ll find that some of the shares will illicit memories and great conversation making your holiday celebration even more memorable.

YOUR Gratitude Share Serves to Raise the Vibration of People and the Planet

It’s true! Sharing gratitude raises the mood and vibration of ourselves, everyone we share it with and the space we’re in; and these good feelings and vibes go on to raise the vibration of the planet and people everywhere. Hearing what others are grateful for is a great reminder of things we may have forgotten or that we take for granted therefore bringing more awareness of the good in our own lives. The Law of Attraction tells us that being grateful brings to us even more things to be grateful for ~ and we could all benefit from that!

Wishing you and your family a Happy Thanksgiving

filled with much love, many blessings, and great joy!

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Making Time Out of Thin Air

rainbow vertAn emergency comes up out of nowhere and you are “forced” to take time for something or someone that you had not planned. You have decided that the emergency takes precedence over everything else, because the person or thing that emerged is more important to you than anything else on your plate at this moment.

An Emergency can Serve to Put Your Life in Perspective Rather Quickly

If it is a health emergency, yours or someone else’s, you immediately know that if we don’t have our health, we may not have a productive or long life, so health becomes your first priority. If the emergency involves a relationship that is important to you, you immediately recognize that the people you love and connections in your life are what make your life worthwhile; so you naturally take time out to care for and nurture your relationships.

Making Time Out of Thin Air is Not Relegated to Emergencies

Imagine making time for health, relationships and everything else that is vitally important to you, before an emergency strikes. Imagine taking excellent care of your physical body, your soul and those you love without being “forced” into it.  Imagine sharing time, having real conversations, and being committed to understanding your loved ones or co-workers now – not just when emotions run high and things get a bit hairy or out of control. Do yourself a huge favor and avoid an emergency by making time out of thin air today for what – and who – matters most to you. Now, that’s Powerful!

There’s Always Time for What’s Most Important

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Wishing you an Abundance of Time!

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Do You Procrastinate Out of Fear?

photo-changing_mindsHave you ever been in a position of flux?  You don’t know exactly what to do and you are so afraid to make the wrong decision that you have frightened yourself into non-action. You procrastinate, whine and moan, teeter back and forth and literally feel frozen in your tracks. You ask others for their advice and this only serves to confuse you more because it simply adds to the inordinate number of choices you have before you. How can you possibly do something if it might be the wrong decision in the long run? Is fear holding you away from your dreams and desires?

Make a Decision, Any Decision

Fear saps energy from your dreams, your body and your soul. When you allow yourself to procrastinate and you avoid a decision or action out of fear, you literally send a signal to God and the Universe that you don’t really want your dreams to manifest as badly as you say you do. The first step out of stagnation is to remind yourself of the beauty of your desires. Feel the feelings on the other end of the manifestation, and allow yourself to feel the freedom that your dreams will bring. Then, open yourself to be guided by your inner guidance system ~ your intuition ~ and make even the tiniest step in the direction you are guided.

You Don’t Have To Leap ~ Baby Steps Can Bring About Miracles

Many people think that to achieve big things, you must take big action. The truth is that any and every action you take with the intent to live into your dreams gets you closer to its manifestation; and being closer by an inch today is better than being in the same place you are now, tomorrow. No worries if you make a misstep. You can always correct your path later. It is your intention and your action towards fruition that truly matters.

Even the Smallest Action Repeated Consistently

Brings Massive Results Over Time

Go ahead… Take a baby step!  Now, that’s Powerful!

Wishing you the Joy of Action!

Sue Urda

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Getting Others to Agree With You

Sunset - two people talkingThere are times when you feel very clear about your path and you trust the direction in which you are moving.  Much of the time, you find that others involved will be right there with you, totally aligned and in agreement. On occasion though, as you move forward someone steps forth and throws a kink in the works. They have their own plan, their own agenda, and it is definitely not in sync with yours. What to do?

Listen.  Listen first to them.

Listen with the intention of understanding their position and their motivation. Listen for the truth. Listen with an open heart and notice in which way you are moved not only by their words, but also by their intention and their passion. Do not speak except to ask questions of them. Notice how you feel. Are you inclined to change your position and adjust your path? Or are you still quite sure that your path, as it was, remains the same?  You will know this by tapping in to your inner self. You are equipped with an inner guidance system that needs no explanation or reason. When you are in tune with your inner self, and your intention is to seek truth above all else, you know that it does not matter whether others agree with you.

You know that your own truth is the one that you must abide by.

Getting others to agree with you is of no consequence. It does not matter. What matters is that you follow your own path, in your own time, in your own way. Your heart will never steer you wrong. Be gentle with yourself and others as you perfect this fine art of self-referral. You will each see beauty in action as you move forward. Now, that’s Powerful.

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Wishing you the Joy of Self-Referral!

Sue Urda

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