Making Room for What Matters Most

10801761_10204910348551292_3307150239408294271_n“If anything is worth doing, it’s worth doing badly.” ~Martha N. Beck

Your day starts off as it usually does – wake up, take a shower, make breakfast and pack lunches, get the kids off to school, kiss hubby goodbye and settle into your routine. And then, bam! The phone call comes that changes everything. 

Schedules go out the window, plans are put on hold and you suddenly realize that you haven’t spent nearly as much quality time with the people who matter most to you as you now wish you had. How did you let so much left unsaid? How did you let so much time get away from you? 

The answer is simple. It’s life.

So often we allow our everyday practices to drive us instead of us deciding which way to go and what to do next. And we often do this at the expense of making time and room for what and who matters most to us. In our rush to be successful and get ahead, or even to make ends meet, we neglect a simple phone call, we cancel plans to get together, and we tell ourselves they’ll understand. And then, bam! Suddenly there’s a wakeup call, or worse, we find there is no more time. 

How can we change this? 

We must decide who in our lives is most important and make room for them. A dinner with friends, a long overdue family vacation, or even a ten-minute phone call serves to connect us and keep us aligned with our highest values – love and connection. How about a new motto? 

People first, everything else second.

If we keep our priorities in line with our values, there will be no room for regret; instead we’ll always make room for what matters most. Now, that’s Powerful!

Gratitude: I am grateful for the loved ones in my life.

Intention: I make time for the people who matter most to me.

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About the Author: Sue Urda is the Feel Good Guidess. She is an Award-winning, Amazon #1 Bestselling Author, Speaker, Inspirer and Co-Founder of Powerful You! Women’s Network and Powerful You! Publishing. She was named twice on the Inc. Magazine list of the 500 Fastest-Growing Private Companies Sue is a thought leader who envisions a world full of people connected to their ‘feel-good’, and she’s here to help them do it. Sue’s vision is to contribute to a global consciousness of women helping women succeed in business and in life and to open them to truth of who they are.

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  1. Elizabeth Scala

    I really enjoy your blog. You’ve got great info for everyone at every stage of life.

  2. Sue Urda

    Thanks Elizabeth! I share what I learn through what’s going on with me. I know I probably face many of the same challenges as others, so I’m happy to assist through my own life and musings.


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